Reader Obsessed writes:
I’ve developed an obsession with a person aside from my better half. I’ve been hitched a decade, so we have kiddies. I’ve been fighting to keep this obsession from increasing for more than a 12 months. It started due to a household tragedy for which a family member ended up being lost in a terrible means. Police force ended up being mixed up in event and also this guy served as a liaison/support to my loved ones during this time period. In the long run my appreciation and admiration for him due to just how he taken care of immediately the tragedy has exploded into intense psychological and real desire.
We now have had extremely face contact- i believe just three times in the last 1.5 years. But we now have had alot more contact via social media/text/etc. At one point we confessed to him that i needed him (in which he reinforced this by acknowledging their own desire to have me personally) but I happened to be clear that i possibly could not/would perhaps not act with this because i really do perhaps not need to risk my endowed life with my husband/child.
I will be just experiencing less and less confident concerning this declaration all the time while having recently also began considering a tremendously plan that is specific hook up with him. I understand We have currently crossed a line with regards to fidelity (and feel self-loathing) and I also have always been afraid that i may go further and risk the destruction of my marriage/life when I understand it. 続きを読む Assist! I’m Married And Enthusiastic About Another Guy